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Self Discovery
By Audrey Wilson
February 8, 2010
I want to spend a moment INFORMING you about the loneliness that comes with personal growth. It's not from a needy place, but instead a realization that as we Evolve, we often end up separating ourselves from dysfunctional friends and at times even relatives. I know I had to. They can become like a Cancer so to speak eating away at your very core. It's frightening and a bit unnerving to actually take those steps down a path less traveled.
I feel until we find new like-minded people to hang with, we will need a bit more reassurance that nothing bad will happen if we fly solo for awhile. Personal growth and self help doesn't have to mean that you're "messed up" or that there's anything wrong with that needs "fixing". It just means that finally you are taking control of your approach to life, your habits, your choices, and the direction of your personal development and self-empowerment. Focus needs to be on the gifts we give ourselves, withhold from ourselves and why.
Hidden Souls…..
I suppose it’s in our nature to be alone when we going through something negative, and we are the only ones going through it. Working on yourself through healing, changing, growing, and becoming more enlightened as to the way the "Game of Life" is played is the key to true inner peace and happiness. Or sometimes the result is that we really don't feel like playing anymore and you just want to be left alone because you see the world as superficial and fake. You see the people that you love self destructing right before your very eyes and you have tried to help them only to find that your help is not wanted or appreciated.
We have to accept the fact that we cannot force others to accept our wisdom. Some things are best learned on your own. That's why the word is called LEARN! We have to realize that we cannot force others to accept our views of life, of peace, of balance, of harmony, of personal reflection or self accountability. For if you continue on this path you will surely and eventually will be like a Hermit to go off and live your simply perfect balanced beautiful life ALONE.
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